The emptiness within
03.23.06 (10:24 am) [edit]
I'm feeling a great loss. We are so caught up in financial woes and 'tomorrow' that we seemed to have lost sight of today. I am in great fear of 'tomorrow.' It's seems like it's only a matter of time until she decides to move on and for good. There's very little romance between the two of us even though I try so hard. I deserve better than this. I wish she could love me as much as I love her -- life would be PERFECT!
How does one know when to give up? Said it before but most people would have given up some time ago. If you only knew everything. I'm by no means perfect either but I have shown considerable improvement and made the necessary changes. I need help in so many ways.
Back to work, overwhelmed here too!
posted by: shypes (reply)
post date: 03.23.06 (10:48 am)
You know when to give up when the hurt is more than the happiness. Sit her down and see what it is that is actually making her pull away. It may be that your trying to hard instead of being honest and telling her how you feel. Be who you really are, if you all of a sudden turned into a romantic, there is a problem. Its different then who you are. Be open be honest, start out with, we need to talk about things we are doing to each other that may hurt the other and see if there is a comprimise we can come to to meet each other needs.
posted by: 1graham (reply)
post date: 03.24.06 (6:21 am)
Reply to: shypes
Well said. Thanks.