where are we now

where are we now

Charlin moved out the weekend of May 13th. Our first court hearing was the 17th. We now 'share' Kolin 50/50, he's never away from the other parent for more than 3 days. We don't have/get to see one another, the exchange is always made via daycare. I took him to daycare this morning and I will get him again on Wednesday after daycare. I will have him ALL next week! She will be going to Las Vegas for AST (Association of Surgical Technologists). Not my business but I wonder if Jeff will be going with her.

I visited with my attorney Saturday morning and I have much to prepare for. Unless she were to come up with some crazy stories, lies, etc., I'm confident we will have 50/50 shared physical custody. Enough about that, I think it's in my best interest to remain limited regarding the divorce / custody proceedings.

This weekend was great, I had Kolin. Friday evening we went to a friend's 'Block Party.' I wish more neighborhoods would take advantage of such an idea. It was great for so many people to get together and share a meal. It was all great fun until the water guns and sprinkler came out. Unfortunately, I tore my left calf muscle -- OUCH! I spent the rest of the evening sitting or lieing down. Nothing much a doctor can do for me. RICE (Rest, Ice, Compression & Elevation) is the answer. So hard to stop and just sit during these times. It's great to have company to keep my mind off her. It is getting easier though.

I began membership classes yesterday at our church - Church on the Move. Learned the history of the church, the goals and why becoming a member is so important. I've been an attendee of the church for almost 3 years, never did I understand membership until now. Membership will assist me in my goals to grow spiritually. Have a great week.

Thanks for all the comments, e-mails, calls, etc, it all helps through the process.



posted by: Micah (reply)
post date: 05.23.06 (5:41 am)

It is really wonderful to hear that you're getting along better. I'm so glad you had more good stuff to share than bad this time. I'm continually thinking and praying for you, as you become a member of COTM and grow spiritually. I'm confident that you will find a renewed source of strength from God as you discover his will for your life despite the other things you've been through.

Lastly, not that I'm counting, but you're not leaving many comments on MY site. If you could at least let me know that my stuff is getting read, I'd appreciate it! :)

God bless

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